Brotherhood doesn't mean you agree on everything

Brotherhood doesn't mean you agree on everything; you will disagree, do it with respect. 

Enemies can respect each other's knowledge, skill, and point of view. Respect has nothing to do with agreement. It has to do with the acknowledgment that you are at a point where the difference in views has created a separation of not your friendship but opinions. 

Many major disagreements have turned into war, and men at war with one another can develop an admiration for their enemy. It will be better for both parties if you can keep your emotional ego at bay and speak only to the facts of the cause.

I have been told I was wrong or "fucked up." In the past and the present. Some brothers tactfully deliver this needed message, and others drive it through you like a K-Bar in the heart. Tread with caution if you disrespect a brother with a personal attack that has nothing to do with the issue. It will not be forgotten. Resentment will occur. 

Regardless of the delivery, a conversation must happen between the two men. The best way to handle that is between only the two involved. The fewer egos involved, the better. Both men may be at a crossroads for life and end up on opposing sides. Standing at odds with one another and where they can remain brothers, do not hold on to the notion that brotherhood is forever; it is not, and nothing is. Some differences are irreconcilable. 

Men naturally want to solve problems they created or face a careless action they made in the heat of a moment. I say naturally because it is the state of my thinking when I have been negligent in thought and action. To sum it all up, speak the truth with clarity and precision when facing a disagreement, task, problem, or situation that has the potential to become explosive. 

Seek Knowledge & Grow Strong.